Thats it! My last trip to West Virginia. Mom and I went to visit the parents in the cemetery after Yom Kipur. We had a nice visit with them and also with brother Ben and family. On the the way home, we stopped for drinks and chips at a gas station. Mom went to the cashier first with her stuff and said to the IDIOT behind the cash register that I would pay for it all and then he said " Thats is what Fathers are for" He thought I was MOms father. I dont mind being Batsheva" grand father but ill be (BLIP) If Ill be your mother's father. There I said IT!!. PS Your Mother took it as a compliment that she looked young.