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Monday, December 25, 2006

so what am i gonna do with the rest of my life?

ok so we had career day in school today- basically a bunch of religious women from various jobs came to talk to us about what they do, and how they handle job and family, job and religion, yadda yadda yadda. we got to choose a couple jobs we wanted to go to, and they pick 4 sessions that we have to go to. so my 4 were
1) Psychologist
2) Lawyer
3) Computer Graphics
4) Social Worker
I ruled out lawyer right away- just not the kinda thing i wanna do. it looks cool on law and order and a few good men, but in reality its all paperwork and i dont have the concentration or willpower to do that all day. The computer graphics stuff looked interesting- the woman who gave the session does graphics for a magazine and she showed us how she does a lot of the stuff, and then the finished products. it looked really cool and maybe i would do that part time while im in college or something, but its not something i would go into as a real career.
The real dilemna is between a psychologist and a social worker. i know i really want to do one of those things- i love helping people, and talking about their problems. i love listening to peoples problems and lives and helping them figure out what to do with themselves. after talking to a lot of people, i realized i really want to be a psychologist- social workers arent as personal, and even clinical social work is a lot more about fixing situations then listening to problems. do you know what i mean?
Anyways, here are the drawbacks of psychology:
1) its really hard to spell
2) you have to go through 9 years of school, which basically means putting your life on hold for 9 years. i dont know if i want to commit to that.
3) psychologists have the highest suicide rate in america
4) you have to be completely stable yourself to be able to help other people, and i dont know if ill be ready for that at the end of graduate school
5) its hard to seperate yourself from your clients- not to take your work home with you and stuff
But, here are the plusses:
1) its something i REALLY want to do
2) i actually think i would be good at it
3) the salary is really nice- 40-45,000 a year, at least at the beginning

the thing is with social work, the schooling is only like 4-6 years so i could totally start a family in the middle of college. the salary is worse though, and impossible to live off of.
basically it comes down to starting a family early, or getting a really great salary right out of college. i really want to go into psychology, but i feel liek the negative parts override the positive parts.
i know i dont have to be worrying about this yet, but oh well...i am :)
tell me wut to dooooooooooo
love ya!!
a&f
shev

10 Comments:

  • There are several other job positions that you haven't considered which were not represented at your career day
    1- horse jockey-
    2- witch doctor
    3- airplane pilot
    4- author
    REMEMBER WHAT IS SAYS IN THE TALMUD- PICK A PROFESSION THAT IS EASY AND CLEAN! ie Elephant rider at the barnum and bailey circus- in other words- dont limit your options EXPAND THEM

    By Blogger dad, at 7:48 PM  

  • another choice is counseling which only requires a masters degree and you do have a close 1 to 1 relationship with the person or people.

    By Blogger mom, at 1:07 AM  

  • Simmy was gona do psych, but it just takes too long. Ask Doc Last.
    I vote for witch doctor though.

    By Blogger Rolling hills of green, at 3:00 AM  

  • i thought you were gonna go to seminary and never come back, in which case you can just sit at the kotelwith a cup, and people will pay you for doing that.

    By Blogger docyaak, at 9:53 AM  

  • But don't you hate school?

    Why not be a writer.

    By Blogger Air Time, at 10:22 AM  

  • Become a Slurpee delivery girl. Then you can hang out at 7-11 and get paid for it.

    By Blogger stillruleall, at 5:50 PM  

  • ok
    dad- this is why i dont learn talmud
    mom- tell me more about counseling, i dont really know what it is
    RHofG- thats the thing, i dunno if i can commit to 9 years
    yaak- that was the plan but those women have no teeth and that kinda freaks me out
    air- actually, i really like school this year. the thing with being a writer is that i cant always write, and a lot of times ill just get bored with it, or i have no ideas or anything. no way i'd be able to make a living off of that either....
    stillrule- if the other stuff doesnt work out, ill keep that in mind...do u think neil would hire me??

    By Blogger SHEV, at 5:54 PM  

  • How about a horse thief?

    One of the fun things about psychology is that you can learn hypnosis as part of it and then do hypnotherapy..

    By Blogger rockofgalilee, at 3:03 PM  

  • Shev,

    When you have it all figured out please let me know...I think we're in the same boat :)

    By Blogger 2R, at 9:39 AM  

  • I once had dreams of being a shrink doctor, I even talked about it with Doc Last, but everyone crushed my dreams and told me that I lacked the- sensitivity to be one :(

    By Blogger Just Shu, at 12:14 PM  

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