Major Dilemma

School is finally getting better. I got old tests to study from for my final next week (the second chance on math) and I understood statistics today. Thats harder then it seems cuz the teacher is Russian and has worse Hebrew then I do. Anyways, heres the dilemma. We have bunches of weddins coming up and engagement parties. First we have Hillel Kates engagement party out somewhere up north I think. Then Shanys friend is getting married also somewhere far away, then 2 of the guys from the army are getting married (not too each other!!) 3 days apart, then anther friends wedding. Somewhere in the middle of that all, Nissim is getting married. All in the space of two weeks, and after those two weeks are finals. So when are we supposed to study? I already decided not to go to one of the army guys weddings, but the other ones we cant get out of. Which brings up the real dilemma (what is up with the word dilemma? I thought it was dilemna, but I checked on dictionary and it said its dilemma. I think dilemna looks more normal) The real dilemma is that Shanys friend is getting married Sunday of Purim. To most of you that wouldnt matter but for those of us Yerushalmim, Sunday is our real Purim. So I'm supposed ot get drunk, have a whole seudah and then go running to a wedding? Does that make sense. So Shany said she'll go without me if I dont want to go. But who's going to help me find my apartment and put me in bed if she goes away? And I know even if she says shell go alone, she really wont like it. So should I go to the wedding drunk and in costume? I dont even know who these people are. Why are people so inconsiderate to make weddings on my Purim!?!?! I just dont understand.